Wednesday, March 20, 2013

My Healing Crisis

A healing crisis is when you experience symptoms or reactions from diseases or toxins that are released during a cleanse.We have seen such crises with my son and bad gut bacteria die and we get another positive growth moment. 

I recently had my own healing crisis. Without getting into too much detail, there has been some custody drama with the X. I originally filed to have my child support reduced when I became unemployed last year and the other party became greedy. I'll just leave it at that. 

As you can imagine, this was VERY stressful. It was stressful for me, my family, and my marriage. It was a rough time. Life pretty much sucked. 

Then something miraculous happened. My wife & I realized just how much we mean to each other, how we need each other, and how much we love each other. Whaat could have easily driven us apart actually pulled us closer together. 

This event has recharged my marriage and made me fall back in love with my wife (not that I was never not in love with her). And she has fallen back in love with me. This event has put the spark back in our marriage back to when we first got married. My youngest asked the other day" How you guys hug so much?" to which I replied "because we love each other". She then said "you guys didn't used to do that". She's right, after 10+ years of marriage, and 14+ years of being together, things tend to get complacent. This event has revitalized my marriage and life is awesome once again!

Sometimes you just need a slap in the face to make you realize just what you have. I've been slapped and I realize once again that I have everything I need.....my wife & my kids.